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How to get back 80 days of your life

How to get back 80 days of your life

When you get divorced, you often wish you could cut ties with your ex completely. But if you have kids, that’s not usually in anyone’s best interest. Ironically, most couples who get divorced struggle with communication… and communication becomes even … Read More

Four ideas for creating a special bond as a single parent

Four ideas for creating a special bond as a single parent

The bond between parent and child is a strong one… if you nurture it. When you don’t have your kids all the time because you’re sharing custody, it can feel harder to nurture that bond. The good news is that … Read More

Choosing the Best Custody and Divorce Lawyers for Your Family’s Future

Understanding Child Custody What is Child Custody? Child custody refers to the rights and obligations between parents regarding their children after a divorce, legal separation, or paternity decree. There are two independent types of custody: legal custody and physical custody. … Read More

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Our Fall Traditions

Fall is here! Well, living in California, fall really doesn’t make much of an entrance. The weather changes ever so slightly and the months change names. But even though it doesn’t look like fall around here, there are plenty of … Read More

Parenting and Divorce

Parenting and Divorce: Supporting Your Child’s Well-Being

Parenting during a divorce is tough, especially when it comes to parenting and divorce. How do you support your child’s well-being through this transition? This article covers key strategies for communication, stability, parenting plan and more. Read on to learn … Read More

Simplified kids' schedules for divorced parents

Kids schedules made easier live for divorced parents

It’s no secret that when school starts back up again, life suddenly gets chaotic. Not only is there school all day, five days a week, but all the kids’ activities start back up again and we wonder why we signed … Read More

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Resources for divorced parents and kids

Getting divorced is hard on everyone involved, especially your kids. The actual process can be long and drawn out, but there’s hope that once the divorce is finalized, everything will be okay right away. The truth is that getting a … Read More

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Last days of summer how to make them count

The first day of school is always exciting and fun, but also bittersweet. It means no more sleeping in and spending long afternoons at the pool and no more late nights gathered around a campfire laughing with friends and eating … Read More

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Financial Planning for Divorcees: 5 Essential Steps to Secure Your Future

Divorce can upend every aspect of your life, especially your finances. Navigating this new landscape is crucial to securing your financial future. In this article, we’ll walk you through essential steps for financial planning for divorcees—covering everything from assessing your … Read More

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45 Life Lessons + 5 to grow on

I found this article many years ago and still refer to it regularly to remind me of the important things Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio “To celebrate growing older, I once … Read More

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5 Days It Really Sucks to be a Single Parent

No one ever said being a single parent was easy. I guess I am luckier than most, because in some ways, I was raised for this role. My mom was a single parent who raised 3 children – with little … Read More

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We Need More Single Father Role Models

Where are the positive father stories? Why aren’t there more positive stories about divorced or single fathers who are involved in their child(ren)’s lives? We constantly hear stories of fathers who abandon their children and walk away from their responsibilities. … Read More

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Top Tips for Financial Planning for Divorcees and Building a Secure Future

Divorce changes your financial situation. This guide on financial planning for divorcees covers how to assess your finances, create a budget, handle joint debts, and plan for future stability. Let’s get started on securing your financial future. Key Takeaways Understanding … Read More

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Child Support Doesn’t End at 18

Although many people believe that child support ends at the age of 18 recent US Census data shows that 21.6 million members of the “Millennial Generation” (ages 18-31) lived in their parents’ home in 2012. what rights do parents have … Read More